A Meeting of Spirituality and Sexuality


Probably nothing is more controversial today than issues surrounding religion and homosexuality. The purpose of this page is to direct open, seeking minds and souls to resources that will help them understanding the issues involving faith and same-sex love.

I am a Christian so this page reflects mainly my own search and point of experience. I have tried to include some resources for people of other faiths as well, since I believe this to be very important, but have very little expertise in other religions.

It may surprise some to know that I was raised Southern Baptist and that, despite my absolute disdain for the Southern Baptist Convention and my continuing struggle to find an affirming Baptist church, I still hold to some of the core tenants of Southern Baptists (the divinity of Christ, the priesthood of the believer, the sacrament of immersion baptism as a symbol of new life in Christ, etc.). See, it is possible to be gay, liberal, and Baptist.

My journey has not been easy and still continues. I thank God for discovering the television ministery and published works of Dr. Gerald Mann. Dr. Mann describes his faith as "Common Sense Christianity." I firmly believe in many of the approaches Dr. Mann takes to Christianity. You will find his website and his works listed below.

Dr. Daniel Helminiak, author of the book "What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality" also helped me through this fantastic book understand how the Bible does not condemn homosexuality, despite years of being taught the contrary. Rev. Mel White's biography was also a source of much inspiration and also gave me hope. Both of these books are found below.

For a very brief insight into what I believe about Christianity and Homosexuality, click here.

Gay and Christian Resources
Whosoever A great resource for all those seeking a safe haven and answers about GLBT Christian issues. This is one of my favorite websites on this subject.
Gay Charlotte Christian Page A lot of good links to follow that aren't Charlotte-specific. Check out the "Blue Book" at the top of the page in .pdf format - it is a wonderful document.
Religious Tolerance A site promoting respect between people of all different faiths
A direct link to Religious Tolerance's page on homosexual issues.
Celebration of Faith A gay-affirming website that has a good links page also
Homosexuality and the Bible A thoughtful study of what the Bible says about homosexuality
Homosexuality and Christianity Another exceptionally in-depthl study of the Biblical passages on being homosexual
Soulforce Emergency Numbers Are you in a crisis? Here is a list of national hotlines that might help you with your problem.
Christian Gays
Mary, the owner of the site asked me to post the following description. She's a really sweetie and I think her site is great: A site which affirms homosexuality as a valid alternative lifestyle supported by enlightened ACCURATE interpretation of the Bible - products, resources, education, free personals, chat rooms, bulletin boards, more . . .
Gay Christian Organizations
Gay Christians A page for...surprisingly...gay Christians
Evangelicals Concerned A coalition of gay and gay-affirming evangelical Christians
Soulforce Started by the Rev. Mel White, Soulforce is a very politiclally active body of believers
Rainbow Baptists A resource site for gay Baptists
Welcoming and Affirming Baptists Gay and gay-affirming Baptist organization
Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Catholic Handbook Information for Catholics who are part of the GLBT community
Christian Lesbians A site designed specifically for lesbians of faith by lesbians of faith
Homosexuality and Other Religions
Queer Religion A ton of links to sites dealing with mulitple faiths (although I don't like the main page concerning Christianity much - it borders if not crosses distastefulness to me)
Ask the Rabbi & FAQ
(Union of American Hebrew Congregations)
A great explanation of Jewish perspectives (with a gay-affirming slant) on Jewish law and same-sex love
Twice Blessed: The GLBT Jewish Archive News stories relating to Jewish GLBT issues, events, and/or people
Al Fatiha (Muslim) This seems to be a nice gay-affirming site for homosexual Muslims
Other Religious Sites of Interest
Gerald Mann Ministries A true man of God bringing hope back to those of us who were tired of the un-loving and strict dogman of the religious right
Christopher Priest's Essays Noted comic book author and minister (yes, his real name is Priest) who offers up some very sensible and profound takes on modern Christian issues
A great primer on how to read, interpret, and understand the Bible by Priest

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Recommended Reading
Title Author Comments Purchase
What The Bible Really Says About Homosexuality Daniel A. Helminiak The definitive source for an easy to understand yet scholarly approach to properly understanding what the Bible says
Is The Homosexual My Neighbor? Letha Dawson Scanzoni & Virginia Ramey Mollenkott A well-rounded look at all the aspects of being gay and Christian, including Biblical interpretation
The Historical Figure of Jesus E.P. Sanders Who was Jesus? Who did He think He was? A fascinating look at the life and times of Jesus and His message
Common Sense Religion Gerald Mann Christianity that doesn't ask you to give up your logic, reason or ability to think.
When One Day at a Time Is Too Long Gerald Mann Dr. Mann takes on some of the toughest theological questions in existance
Stealing Jesus: How Fundamentalism Betrays Christianity Bruce Bawer The dangers of fundamentalism and how it really has nothing to do with true Christianity
Autobiography
 
Stranger at the Gate Mel White Respected fundamentalist writer for Jerry Faldwell and Pat Robertson comes out in this inspiring autobiography
Prayers for Bobby Leroy Aarons A mother examines how her religious fundamentalism contributed to her gay son taking his life
The Truth Shall Set You Free Sally Lowe Whitehead A wife and mother tells her story about surviving her husband coming out and the implications it had for their "perfect" family and religious foundations
The Preacher's Son Marc Adams The wrenching account of a minister's son dealing with his family's rejection when he comes out to them

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